First Date Woes…
Writing Warmup for April 4
First Date Woes
The porch light was flickering.
Ditto my hopes for a vibrant social life.
Still, I knocked. Three times.
Silence. Should I have added a fourth? Or would that have been pushy? Or seem too desperate?
Should I have brought my therapist with me?
“Good evening.” 
I did a full-body flinch and spun around. “Geezus!”
“I’m sorry. Did I alarm you?”
“Alarm me?! How about scare the–”
He issued a cold, blank stare.
I rolled my shoulders to release the tension. “Do you always teleport on a first date?”
To be continued…
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Show Your Work!
I added the exclamation point just to be annoying.
Here is a two-minute overview of one of my favorite books–Austin Kleon’s Show Your Work.
Good ‘writing as a side-hustle’ story
Miserable Day Job Turns Into $100,000 Side Income

A few other favorites from Chris Guillebeau’s Side Hustle School podcast include:
- Graphic Designer Learns to Draw Caricatures for $250/hr.
- College Lecturer Makes Money By Helping Other Instructors Teach Better
- Finance Employee Sells 200,000 Self-Published Romance Novels
Props Week [Week 2]: brainpickings.org
For a PDF of a quick look at Maria Popova’s brainpickings.org: Click Here.
Props Week, continued: Writing wisdom via Jordan Rosenfeld…
@Jordanrosenfeld
Some of her gems include:
- A fast draft gets it down, but it doesn’t finish it for you.
- Reading is an aerobics class for your writer mind.
- At the beginning, your character shouldn’t be too self-aware; leave room for growth.
- Each scene should still have a goal for your protagonist—and readers are most interested in your protagonist.
The source of Dabble Hour…
My first foray into Dabble Hour went fairly well. I only allowed myself that 60 minutes to follow peripheral projects, including writing for animation. Problem: I planted myself in Distraction Central, our public library. Good place to sit and work, but all those books…

No, I didn’t pick all these up in one trip. But still…someone here needs therapy.
Don’t you love the irony of my having a copy of Deep Work?
In his book Turning Pro, Steven Pressfield says “The amateur prizes shallowness and shuns depth.”
Seems I have a way to go with this…
Props Week: Recipient #4–Mike Brown’s Brainzooming.com
You want inspiration to think creatively? Here’s your site:
Dabble Hour: Keeping Favorite Projects Alive
I have confess…there are projects I still want to stay involved with, but, as Steven Pressfield says [and I agree], delving into multiple projects–thus leading to nothing being finished–suggests yet another triumph of resistance over progress.
And so, for the next week, I’m going with a compromise: Dabble Hour.

I’ll give myself one hour a day to at least stay in touch with some of those side creation/writing projects…even if it’s five minutes to type up a few pertinent ideas, a snippet of dialogue, or log a resource-filled website or two.
Better than letting them sit in the corner of the room in a dust-blanketed notebook.
Props Week: Recipient #3–The Author Marketing Club
If nothing else, spend a little time perusing this site’s impressive collection of free tutorials.